Kink Doctor Dulcinea Pitagora on sex therapy, BDSM, and dominatrix work

May 08, 2018 01:17:28
Kink Doctor Dulcinea Pitagora on sex therapy, BDSM, and dominatrix work
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Kink Doctor Dulcinea Pitagora on sex therapy, BDSM, and dominatrix work

May 08 2018 | 01:17:28

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Hosted By

Rolf Potts

Show Notes

“My specializations come from who I am. I’m a little unusual in the therapy field because I state very clearly what my identifications are. Which is that I’m kinky, and that I’m poly, and that I identify as queer, and that I’m gender fluid, and that I’m a former sex worker.” –Dulcinea Pitagora

Dulcinea Pitagora (@KinkDoctor) is a New York-based psychotherapist specializing in alternative sexuality. She is the host of the web series Kink Doctor.

In this episode of Deviate, Rolf and Dulcinea discuss the specifics of dominatrix work (2:00); the difficulties and hurdles involved with dominatrix and other sex work (25:00); Dulcinea’s personal path into sex work and sex therapy (31:00); sex therapy and alternative sexualities (47:00); and Fifty Shades of Grey and public perceptions of kink (1:00:00).

For more on Dulcinea, check out http://www.dulcineapitagora.com

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